Ok, well some of you know my soap opera-like love life and right now I'm about to go insane!!!

Ok, lets start from the beginning.
I was engaged to BlueOmega for almost a year but I broke it off cause things just weren't working out. But Blue just couldn't get over me. But as my relationship ended the man of my dreams came into my life and I'm head over heels for him (Jessy) I mean who can resist and incredibly sexy guy with long hair and a nipple ring!! Anyways, I have been off an on with Blue for months but this time I really broke off with him. But I still asked him to come over this weekend cause I still care for him and I was worried about him. And since Jessy didn't want to get into a real relationshi[p with me because he thought it was too soon I didn't think he would mind. But he did mind! And now he wont talk to me (he was supposed to call tonight but still hasn't). Anyways, next weekend is Blue's birthday (21 so it's a big deal) and if he doesn't come and do it at my place he's going to to get drunk along in his AFB room alone! Cause all of his friends let him down this weekend! So now I feel really really bad about Blue AND Jessy!!! *sigh* I told you my love life is a soap opera

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Sounds to me like Jessy really likes you. Just doesn't want to rush you into another relationship so soon. I think if you're going to remain friends with Blue then you need to sit down and talk to Jessy about it. Make sure he understands that you just want to be friends with Blue. Tough spot to be in. He might also be worried about getting too involved if he knows that you and Blue have been on and off again for a while. He might think that you want Blue back. Could take a while for him to understand that you don't. Just talk to Jessy about it and be honest with him about everything. If he's really the guy for you, then he'll understand your feelings on all of this.

Good luck with this Amy. http://www.80sxchange.com/ubb/smilies//smile.gif

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I'm with Jazzmyn on this one. Talk to Jessy and tell him how you feel about Blue. You obviously still care a great deal for Blue, and if Jessy is smart, he will appreciate your honesty.

I am the Jessy in my new relationship. Dr. Dave has an ex that he is still friends with and still cares for. He does not love her nor does he want a "relationship" with her, but he still cares. He is very open and honest with me about his involvement with her and her young son. She is now seeing someone else, and the contact is far less than it was. As far as I am concerned, his caring is a good quality. I like the fact that if things don't work out between Dave and I, I still have a friend and he will still be close to my children. That is important to me. He has a good heart, as do you Amy.

Anyway, the point to this ramble is, be honest with Jessy. It will mean more than you know.

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First things first, you need to make 100% sure that you are completely done with Blue. Next step (if you are) is to talk to blue and set up parameters of what your relationship with each other will consist of (phone calls, visits, etc are ok or not). Next, you have to be honest with Jessy and let him know that Blue will always mean something to you, and let him know the parameters you have set up. That way, everybody is on the same page, and you can progress with whichever relationship is working best for you! Good luck!

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Thanks peeps. That's very sweet of you to help out. Well things aren't so bad anymore. Turns out Jessy wasn't even pissed in the first place. It was just our friend Dave's wrong interpritation of Jessy's actions. Unless Jessy isn't being honest with me. I don't know. He's has a problem with trust and he explained that to me and I understand him. It's just think that if you're waiting to be able to trust someone you should show that person that they can trust you. But I haven't been in a new relationship in a while so I don't know.

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I can understand the trust issue. You'll need to give him time on that one. I've been hurt so many times, that I have a bad habit of imaging everything that could go wrong and then running before it can happen. I'm really working on getting past that. It takes a lot to realy trust someone when you've been hurt in the past. I really hope it all works out for you Amy.

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I can understand about the trust thing 100%. Thing is when Blue came I think I messed up the bit of trust I had accumulated. I guess I'll just have to work it up.

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