I'm a nice dude, I'm Handsome, i'm not a trendy geek, and i still seem to get dumped. i find the girl of my dreams and then i lost my job and can barely pay my rent so she dumped me. it really makes no sense. any suggestions? i've tried almost everything, i've never cheated, i never break a promise and i still get my heart ripped out <img src="confused.gif" border="0">

<FONT COLOR="#6699cc" SIZE="1">[ June 28, 2001 11:42 PM: Message edited by: Poison PJ ]</font>

Wish I could make you feel better Poison. I can relate in some ways to how you're feeling. Not sure why a girl wouldn't want you. You seem like such a great guy. I guess it just wasn't meant to be right now. Hopefully you'll find someone willing to except you no matter what situation you find yourself in.

I don't know you all that much but you seem like a sweet guy.<img src="smile.gif" border="0">
Its always the nice guys who get dumped.
Hold your head up and be proud of who you are!! That girl will come to realize to late how special you are.
Move on, If she dumped you for something like losing your job then she is not a good person. She should be there to encourage and support you.

You will make it through PoisonPj.<img src="smile.gif" border="0">
You have a lot of friends here,so if you are ever feeling down think of us ALL giving you a {{{{huggie}}}

Chin up Poison PJ! If she dumped you for something piddly like that, IMHO, she wasn't the woman for you! The right one is waiting around the corner...which corner you ask? That's the fun, you have to find out! <img src="wink.gif" border="0"> Good luck, and big hugs to you!

Thanks For the Support everyone

It's tough losing a job (I know, I lost my full time job in November, just working part time right now) but the perfect woman for you would not have "Dumped" you. It is better now to find out how she is instead of later when it may be too late. I firmly believe there is somebody for everybody. It may take years to find her but DON"T GIVE UP!!! All woman are not material girls!
Good luck PJ, keep us informed on how you're doing and remember you have many friends here to talk to. <img src="smile.gif" border="0">

My husband and I just re-financed our house then I got my pink slip that I'm getting laid off. My last day is FRIDAY THE 13TH of July. <img src="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> I don't have a job lined up and I had a vacation planned that I had paid off right before or was it right after? I was told I was losing my job. I've got my resume out there at a couple of places and at a couple of temp agencies. I've tried these websites virtually daily for work:
www.employment911.com (http://www.employment911.com)
www.hotjobs.com (http://www.hotjobs.com)
www.flipdog.com (http://www.flipdog.com)
www.monster.com (http://www.monster.com)
www.careerbuilder.com (http://www.careerbuilder.com)

Good luck! <img src="smile.gif" border="0"> <img src="smile.gif" border="0"> <img src="smile.gif" border="0"> <img src="smile.gif" border="0">

Thanx for The links Pebbles, I'll Check'em out

Sorry to hear about your Love/Job troubles<img src="frown.gif" border="0"> Pj. Some girls don't know when they've got a good thing until it smacks them in the face so to speak. Here's a {Hug} to make ya feel better <img src="smile.gif" border="0">

I Highly apprecate all the support you guys are giving me. it makes me feel good to see that i have good friends that care

I just recently was dumped myself and I feel your pain.I have a theory that chicks just don't dig nice guys.I treated my ex like gold but got the ax anyway.Girls always complain that they want a nice guy who respects them but they always dump them for the guy who's a total dirtbag.Or maybe I'm just bitter.

I told you, culty, some women make men look tame in the jackass dept.
PJ, sweetie, when you least expect it, you will find "The One". And you may know her and not even realize it, because you aren't looking in that direction yet.
I hope you get back on your feet and find someone else and a good job - and be confident. Don't pin all your hopes on a woman, it isn't fair to either of you. Especially since she will be lucky to know you.

PJ,
You are a sweet guy and she didn't deserve you. You can get better, just keep saying that to yourself.
Did you really want someone like that? Someone who was cold hearted?
There are so many women out there who would give their right arm for a nice guy, i am one of those. I have never met a nice guy i really didn't think they existed until i joined the 80sxchange. You will find the right one and she will never hurt you like that.
Chin up,, smell the roses.. *smooches for PJ* <img src="tongue.gif" border="0"> <img src="tongue.gif" border="0">

"..the man up in the tower was enjoying the show.
hey let me out of here-
what am I here for?
Why Me?

There must be a thousand other guys.
must be some other way to look good in your eyes.
Why am I up here?
what do they see in me?
Must be one thousand other places to be.
Why Me?

why me?"

(groovy song,,baby) <img src="cool.gif" border="0">

I know what you are going through PJ <img src="frown.gif" border="0">

What's going on Not Man???

I need some time to myself so I might not be around for a while. <img src="frown.gif" border="0"> Thanks for being concerned. You are a good friend Myst. <img src="smile.gif" border="0">

Take all the time you need buddy! We'll be here for ya when you need us! {{{special hugs}}} for Nottie!

{{{HUGS}}} for Nottie. I hope you feel better soon, Not Man....you are such a special person. If you need to chat, we are all here for you....<img src="frown.gif" border="0"> I want Nottie to feel better...<img src="frown.gif" border="0">

Me too puleeze <img src="frown.gif" border="0"> *wishes she could give Jim a hug and be his friend* <img src="frown.gif" border="0">

Thanks Myst, Val, and topcat <img src="biggrin.gif" border="0">

Right back at you you three ((((((((HUGS))))))))

Anyone who calls me by my real name and wants to be my friend gets a EXTRA special hug *tries to think of a way to give topcat a EXTRA special hug, but can't think of one*

I will have to come there and give you a real hug instead. <img src="wink.gif" border="0"> Only kidding topcat....HONEST! <img src="biggrin.gif" border="0">

I am always your friend NotMan...ummm Jim <img src="smile.gif" border="0"> If I ever meet you again I will make a better effort to give you a hug from me. <img src="smile.gif" border="0">

Thanks topcat <img src="smile.gif" border="0">