Can a woman always tell if a guy has a crush on her, or can this be completely hidden? ( For my own information :D )

No. If a guy has a crush on a girl he should tell her. The chances are good that she will be flattered and may even har a crush on them too! :) Not saying anything will get them nowhere. :)

I totally agree with TC. A man should just come out and tell a women that he has a crush on them.
I believe in being honest.
That is why I am going to come out and just say

Taz, I have a mad crush on you.

See that wasn't so hard.
:eek:

I am shaking :vibrator: :vibrator: :vibrator:
Someone stop the shaking :vibrator:
:lol:

But I am sure everyone knew that? Right :lol:

Don't worry, Milani, I picked up on it. :lol:

I agree with TC. And the same goes for a woman....

My sweetest high school memory was when a guy I'd been friends with for a while told me he'd had a crush on me since 10th grade. (This was about three weeks before we graduated.) He said he was afraid I wouldn't talk to him (I was cuter then :lol: ), and by the time he knew I was shy and not stuck up, I was with my soon-to-be hubby, so it was too late for him. :) He didn't have to lay himself on the line, knowing he'd get nowhere, but he wanted me to know before school was out and we didn't see each other again. :) I will never forget him!

**Chris, thanx so much for that! :* **

Originally posted by Milani
I am shaking :vibrator: :vibrator: :vibrator:
Someone stop the shaking :vibrator:


Why do I feel like I am the butt of a joke here... :shakey:

Girls definately don't always know when a guy has a crush on them. I dont think I would have wanted a guy to come right out and tell me though. I always liked the flirting and guessing at first. Then they can let me know for sure later. I'm just sick that way!:D

Why do I feel like I am the butt of a joke here...


:laugh:

And what a cute butt you have :lol:

:p

Originally posted by sarge
Can a woman always tell if a guy has a crush on her, or can this be completely hidden? ( For my own information :D )

Definitely not! I've never been able to tell. You may want to tell her, just be up front and friendly about it. :)

Originally posted by Milani
:laugh:

And what a cute butt you have :lol:

:p



:rolleyes: :rolleyes:
...and you say you have a crush on me. :p



Well, I'll confess too.... you're pretty special to me :*


There.... I said it! LET THE ROLLIE EYES BEGIN!!! :lol:

Originally posted by Milani
Taz, I have a mad crush on you.

Originally posted by Taz
Well, I'll confess too.... you're pretty special to me :*
There.... I said it! LET THE ROLLIE EYES BEGIN!!! :lol:

Wow.....NO ONE saw THAT one coming, huh? :rolleyes:
As soon as I saw the title of the thread, it was only a matter of time......:lol:

However guys.....it said "hidden" crushes, not blatently obvious crushes....

Well you guys scare me ...... cause you make me feel all weird ! I'd never admit liking anything if it makes me look sensible, metal forbid !!! no really , If I go all kind of outgoing I guess people would be suspicious ! I don't mind admitting being a nice guy, but that's haw far as I would dare go ! Should I change my way ? no idea !!!! But heck I found it's much easier to kick someone than to like someone ( not even talking about love ! ) But who knows, at the right time, in the right place , with the right person I may finally develop a sense of subtelity !..... yeah right, ....I'm all too aware of my limits........:( :( :( :(

TGND " Not loveless, just inapropriate for it ! "

Originally posted by Pagan

Wow.....NO ONE saw THAT one coming, huh? :rolleyes:
As soon as I saw the title of the thread, it was only a matter of time......:lol:



Hey Putz! Don't make me remind you what you should do with that lower lip of yours! :laugh: :p

I think some crushes have to be hidden,like the one I have on my friends girlfriend right now,I've dug this chick since I first met her(before her and my friend were together)and now that there having major relationship problems,I don't know if I should be happy or sad.I mean she gives me all the signs that she digs me too but neither one of us will screw over my friend.

Emotions really suck!!!(I'm too old for this emotional crap)

I would have no problem letting a woman know that I have a crush on her. Sure, it's unnerving to get up the gumption to do it, but it's just being expressive about how you feel, and when I thought of it that way, it seemed easier for me to do so. I currently have a little crush on some little lady here at the xchange, but I'm not saying who. ;) Was I just contradictory? :lol:

*Officially stalked by & secretly stalking Iluvthe80s: Beautiful and Enchanting! On my mind always! Can't wait to have you in Corpus!

:lol:

Should we guess who it is? :lol:

Originally posted by Milani


:lol:

Should we guess who it is? :lol:



Ummm....... :D

:lol: Trixter.

I have a few of my own crushes here.... Shakey, Cal, lostboy...to name a few ! :p :angel:

I have a few hidden crushes too TC! My husband always asks me if I'm sending messages to my boyfriend on here. I tell him I have a few boyfriends on the xchange, they just don't know it yet. :D ...I think!:rolleyes:

I was never very good at figuring out when guys had crushes on me. My husband, for example. LOL! The poor guy had to chase me for almost a year before I figured it out. I was pretty obvious, myself, though :eek: Not until I got older did I acquire my powers of sneakiness. :sneaky:

Well, I can usually tell when a guy has a crush on me.. so I am lucky in that manner.. as far as having a crush on someone else.. I'd probably not tell them unless I felt the feeling was mutual :o

hmmm, I have a crush http://www.jordysworld.de/emoticons/maer25.gif I'll never say who it is though :lol:

From my experience, the women/ girls I've had crushes on haven't been any good at recognising it, but it always feels like they should instantly recognise it when I'm in their company. Anyway of the two girls I did tell, neither went out with me, the first was already going out with another boy and the second was a friend of an ex-girlfriend I'd recently split up with, it was really bad luck for me since they'd only become friends after I'd split up with my girlfriend.

The problem now is that I still get crushes and now I have to make sure the other person and my wife doesn't find out.

Originally posted by pamela*
.. as far as having a crush on someone else.. I'd probably not tell them unless I felt the feeling was mutual :o



Why not? It's sweet and innocent. I would be flattered to have a crush revel themselves. It doesn't have to be mutal. That's what makes it sweet and innocent! ;) I have no problem telling someone I have a crush on them. It's not like I want to marry the person. :p I only want to see them dance nakey for me.. :lol:


{maybe not so innocent..)

Originally posted by this charming man
The problem now is that I still get crushes and now I have to make sure the other person and my wife doesn't find out.

Yep... being married doesn't exempt you at all from crushes... the trick is recognizing them as such, and not letting the daydreams sneak into the real world. It's just part of being human and having eyes, IMHO :eek:

So, does this me they can't dance nakey for me?:confused: :p
I guess just TC gets that fun!:D

Definatley got mixed feelings on this one. Have had both good and bad results about letting someone know. I guess it just depends on the situtation. Sometimes it's ok to let the other person know, other times I'm not so sure.