Gawd I feel dumb. I have this confusing...since school started (saw this other punk!:D) and well, now I don't know how I feel anymore. My friends have ran outa things to say, cuz they really see why I can't talk to the other...all the thoughts in my head to the other...all my poetry...help............

Originally posted by Shortie Blonde
Gawd I feel dumb. I have this confusing...since school started (saw this other punk!:D) and well, now I don't know how I feel anymore. My friends have ran outa things to say, cuz they really see why I can't talk to the other...all the thoughts in my head to the other...all my poetry...help............
I'm going to read this again after I've had some sleep. :goofy: If it makes sense then, I'll apologize for the following questions. Those questions are:
1. What the hell are you talking about?
2. Who the hell are you talking about?
3. Do you know what you're talking about?
4. Can I have some of whatever you're on?
:rolleyes:

ROTFLMAO!! :lol: I read it three times....:confused:

I think it has somethng to do with a saw and a punk?? OUCH!

Shortie, If you can clear this up some, maybe we can help you? :)

Okay, okay sorry. I was tired and wanting to go to bed, but no. Thanks to my buddy Ted. :lol: How clear...ummmm....really ****in bad crush??? :o

Originally posted by Shortie Blonde
[BThanks to my buddy Ted. [/B]


Your welcome once again. LOL :p


I read it at least 3 times and I understood it. But I had no idea what to say. :p

I had to read it a couple of times also. I take it you are confused about some punk. You don't know the way you feel now, right?

My advice to you.... see a speach therapist! LOL!!:lol:

Really Shorty... we DO give advice here... you just need to make sure that we understand your post! :lol:

I would gladly have helped you, Shortie, if I had known what to smoke to understand your post better. :lol:

Seriously, if you need help, please ask! :) Just try to finish your sentence so we can help you better! :)

If I can decipher this forum...

Are you telling us that your confused about a guy that you have a crush on and your friends don't like him and think he's a punk?

How'd I do?:confused:

Originally posted by Shortie Blonde
****in bad crush??? :o [/B]

WHOA!! Such bad language and from a 14 year old! :eek:

Okay, I am punk at heart and I mean it, I am not a poser. And this guy, HE IS A PUNK, drives me insane, but I think he barely knows I exist. :cry: I swear, it's so bad that I cried once. And I don't smoke anything!!! I don't need that shit to be wacked!!! And I am sad because he doesn't even have one clue.

Have you tried telling him?

Maybe then he would have a clue. :)

Here is some advice.
Just come out and tell him how you feel.

I can't, you see, there's that issue...he's a junior and I am a freshman. He only cares of the juniors, sophomores, and seniors. Besides, that too, he doesn't talk to the girls who don't look punk or gothic and also the ones that aren't total babes. And I have no guts what so ever for that sorta stuff. And for all I know, if I tell him, the next day, the whole school will know that Shortie Blonde's got a crush on guess who.

ahh high school crushes!!
If he doesn't notice you then forget him. Find someone who does like you for who and what you are. You are to young right now to worry about one guy. Have fun in high school, those years are the best. So make the best of it. Do you really want to look back at those years and remember how one guy made you miserable?

He is not worth your tears... you might think so right now.. but believe me he isn't. You will meet so many different guys that will turn your head.

No, no, no. I am stubborn and rebel against all authority. I will not forget him. Yeah sure there are other guys, but they compare nothing to him! And unless I date myself, there a no other punks in the school except for posers.

I've always been the sort of guy who just had to let a girl know that I had a crush on her. (All though at school, I was generally too scared to tell her myself, so would normally get a friend to. Another time I wrote the name of one on my desk with a love heart.)

Sure everyone found out and sure I got a bit of ribbing, but I was just glad that they knew, so I didn't have to keep the secret bottled up. And yeah, sure they rejected me, but at least I wasn't left wondering for ever. And to tell you the truth, I didn't mind the others teasing me. I was proud of my crushes. LOL

Originally posted by Recker
I was always the sort of guy who just had to let a girl know that I had a crush on her.

Same here, although they always told me first. lol I was quite popular in school. :p Only got rejected once, didn't hurt so bad considering I was only 12. :rolleyes:

I rmember running down to the end of the hill where my mother would pick me up and having 3 girls chasing me everyday. LOL Trying to pinch my butt. :p 2nd grade girls mind you. :eek:

I am proud of this one! You don't know the guts of crushin on this guy! Think of Johnny Rotten and Jim Carrey, combine them, you've got him. I never say anything to them though. Usually, eventually, someone (a friend) accidently spills the beans to some one and they end up telling my crush, or they can't take my pathetic-ness and tell him theirself.

Originally posted by Recker
I've always been the sort of guy who just had to let a girl know that I had a crush on her. (All though at school, I was generally too scared to tell her myself, so would normally get a friend to. Another time I wrote the name of one on my desk with a love heart.)

Sure everyone found out and sure I got a bit of ribbing, but I was just glad that they knew, so I didn't have to keep the secret bottled up. And yeah, sure they rejected me, but at least I wasn't left wondering for ever. And to tell you the truth, I didn't mind the others teasing me. I was proud of my crushes. LOL

Now that is sweet Recker. I bet you put those girls on cloud nine.

Shortie Blonde, if he's a mix between Jim Carey and Johnny Rotten is he really that great? Just had to ask. Secondly is their really anything that wrong with posers?:rolleyes: Have you watched the movie SLC punk? They all turn out to be posers eventually.:p ;)

After all that, seing how my brother react to shortie blond, she'll make a perfect addition to our disfunctionnal family ! Care to be my little sister ? I'll kept ya in check any way I can, but I love ya !

TGND " dual personality guy ! nice /evil and nothing in between ! "

after reading all this, I know know what you mean by having a confused thought:)

Hi Shortie Blonde

From what I've read, the punk sounds a bit of a dork and you're probably better off without him. But I can't see him with your eyes and maybe in this crazy world he's your soul mate.

So for your own peace of mind, you've got to let him find out somehow, or find out if he's worth it. You could do it anonymously or through the help of your friends or just ask him yourself.

It's far better to tell someone than to be too shy to do so. I know from experience that years later you still wonder what might have happened, it does your head in and there's nothing you can do about it.

Most people are at least flattered if you tell them that you feel this way for them. It takes a pretty mean person to ridicule somebody about it and those that do definitely aren't worth it.

I know you want to be a rebel, but it sounds like you have a good heart. I bet everybody on here would agree, that if somebody turns you down or makes fun of you for that, then they just prove that you're a better person than they are.

Good luck with whatever you decide, but if it doesn't work out, it won't be the end of the world, it just means your Mr Right is still out there.

He is not a dork (I love that word, I forgot about it...errr), he's like heaven on earth :o for me, anyway. He "will be mine, oh yes," he "will be mine." I am not a rebel on the outside, at heart I am. I've said it once, and I'll say it again, "I am the 'punkness monster'" and I mean it. I am rude and impolite and I have the most punkass beliefs towards everything, but I dress like the normal girls. I expose myself more and more each day...I wear more bangles...union jack everywhere...and that Clash shirt I got for Xmas.

Disfunctional family? Part of it? Well...okay...I guess. :)

I understood this.

Originally posted by TopCat
I understood this.

One of the few things you actually understand in the world. :goofy:

Ted that was mean!!!

Originally posted by Shortie Blonde
Ted that was mean!!!

I'm always mean to TC, we speak in opposittes, yes I know it's weird. Lol :p

Shortie Blonde, I have had my crushes too. Crushes are way too often made up of initial physical attraction. Be careful what you wish for. There is no way to know who is a poser and who isn't until you get to know someone, and you are assuming this guy is not one without knowing him personally.

By singling this guy out to be Heaven on Earth for you, you are missing a lot of other really great guys. You have tunnel visions right now--all you can see is "HIM". It's the guy you least expect to be the right one who turns out to be just that.

The man I am married to isn't the one I was looking at. He didn't have much money and he didn't have a car but he would walk almost 25 miles one way six days a week to work just so that he could get money to buy one. I picked him up on his way home one night. Now, he is a successful engineer, a great husband and a wonderful provider. I was patient, I worked to put him through school and now he is doing the same for me.

My advice is to just to enjoy the way this guy looks at a distance, or gets some nads and get to know him inside up close and personal. Don't assume the inside matches the outside. If you can become objective like this, you will find what you want.

And don't be in such a damn hurry to find what you want. Men are a dime a dozen--find a dime!

You got at least another ten years of assholes to go through ahead of you before you start finding guys who have matured enough to share their inner thoughts, except for Ted, maybe. :D

Bottom Line: Take your sweet ass time.

Originally posted by Gman
You got at least another ten years of assholes to go through ahead of you before you start finding guys who have matured enough to share their inner thoughts, except for Ted, maybe. :D

Bottom Line: Take your sweet ass time.

Gman, do guys mature? I must have missed that lesson at school ;)

Originally posted by this charming man


Gman, do guys mature? I must have missed that lesson at school ;)

Only the weak ones do. :D